"Donot let a breakup lead you to a breakdown.
Better days are coming. Have the maturity to see that whats good by you may not always be good for you.
Do not let bitterness block your blessings of a future mate. God knows why he plucks away certain people from your life.
Don't curse the dry season, instead pray for the rain."

Most people in a relationship always feel like they have found the right person.  Sometimes they even already get married in their minds with the person they're going out with(esp girls). But before they could say "pim" the relationship is over.

It can really feel terrible to realize that the person that was in your life and future.... is gone. The feeling can hurt more than a thousand spears through your heart.
When something reminds you of them;  maybe a song,  or a place that meant something to you two; the pain of their absence refreshes.

Well,  the main purpose of dating is so you could find the right and perfect mate for marriage. It doesn't mean that if one person walks away from your life, another who is better will not walk in.
Sometimes a breakup is for the best, sometimes its God's way of saving us from making the mistakes of our lives.

Of what use is a relationship if you're not happy inside it;?
Of what use is a relationship if you're not loved back, or your efforts not appreciated? Of what use is a relationship if you're not treated right?
Of what use is a relationship if you're cheated on?
Of what use is a relationship if you dont mean much to the person you're going out with? (cos if you mean anything to them, they won't walk away).

Its inevitable that a breakup often leads to feelings of guilt,  confusion, loneliness and even worthlessness..
Being hurt at heart is one of the hardest things to deal with.

But God didn't create us with the ability to love simply to torture us with it. He also made us with the ability to heal.
Every broken heart always heals when you dont let what happened in the past rob you of your chances of present happiness.