It is important to note that; no relationship is worth robbing us of peace of mind.
It is far better to be single and enjoy peace of mind than to be in a relationship where you are not appreciated, you are ill-treated, you are not loved back, you are cheated on and used.

Today many young people go into relationships for the wrong reasons and motivations.
Most marriages today are enacted on the altar of pressure from parents and peers.
You should know that getting married or being in a relationship is not about popularity,  its not about following the crowd/trend, it's not something you do because your friends are doing it.
The big question is, how matured are you to handle the problems associated with being in a conjugal union with someone.
How capable are you to orchestrate your own happiness?
How much do you love yourself?

Yes, how can you love someone else when you don't love yourself?
How can you make someone else happy at your own peril?
How can you spend sleepless nights in tears for someone who clearly doesn't care about you?

Love yourself enough so you cant be played with.
Love your family enough first,  because they are more deserving.

Know your worth, and never settle for less. If someone clearly doesn't want you in their lives,  dont force it,  move on,  dont put yourself through emotional/mental stress. I assure you,  someone will come along and make you realise why it never worked out with anyone else.

Being single is not a curse, sometimes it means you care about your happiness than societal trends.